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Articles
The Myth of a Christian Marriage
Number 1 Predictor of Divorce
No. 1 Predictor of Divorce
By Judy Bodmer
Noted author and researcher John Gottmann, PhD, cites contempt as the one characteristic he sees most often in couples who divorce. Contempt, defined by the dictionary, is an attitude of utter disgust or hatred: a powerful feeling of dislike toward somebody or something considered to be worthless, inferior, or undeserving of respect.
It’s not criticism or quarrelling; it’s the habitual putting down of the other person—telling them they are worthless, no good, or stupid.
If these are present in your marriage, then I urge you to read my book. Something can be done to stop this.
"I have read your wonderful book “When Love Dies” twice. I can relate on so many levels that I felt like you wrote it for me." Cyndi from Colorado